Body Language and Children

Learning from senior's mannerisms, facial expressions and body language is a child's primary training. Have you not seen a child crying just to draw elders' attention? Is it not its body language?

Society development of child, at this stage, unfolds under the following didtinct categories.

1. Imitation
2. Dependence
3. Envy
4. Shyness
5. Camaraderic
6. Attention pondering
7. Obstinacy
8. Bellingerence

As said in the famous epic, 'Ramayana' weeping is a weapon for children. The baby gets milk only when it cries. In ancient times, child was believed to be a miniature adult. Child is ofcourse the father of the man.

Children use body language for this or that. A mother can easily understand her child's body language or interpret her baby's non-verbal communication.

Children should be allowed to play as much as they can. They will ensure their muscular development, keen hunger, and a sound health. Keep children away from fear and worries. Avoid narrating instances that trigger negative emotions. Yourself must also avoid being frightened and worried in front of children.

Children should be counselled against ill effects of shouting, abusing and outburss of anger. They should know that people with these negatives are never killed.

As far as possible, try to pin down a lie. But dont compel a child to say 'sorry' which may force him to tell yet another lie.

Never ever discriminate between one child and another.

More tips for communicating with children on next post......